ABC Characteristics of Christians

 

This alphabetical list describes traits commonly held among Christians from all sorts of backgrounds and church affiliations. However, numerous other possibilities exist too. For instance, we might prefer “Disciplined” under “D” or “Peacemaking” instead of “Prayerful” or “Victorious” in lieu of “Versatile.”

Regardless of the variations we use as substitutes for the words selected here, the list can serve as a reminder of our shared goal of becoming more and more Christ-like.

Accountable

Biblical

Caring

Discerning

Encouraging

Forgiven

Grace-filled

Hopeful

Inspired

Joyful

Kind

Loving

Merciful

Necessary

Obedient

Prayerful

Quickened

Reborn

Spirit-Filled

Thankful

Understanding

Versatile

Worshipful

X-ed out of sin

Young-at-heart

Zealous

 

©2024, MaryHarwell Sayler

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God wants to bring good from bad

Remember how Romans 8:28  assures us that "All things work together for good for those who love God and are called according to His purpose?" Two biblical examples of this very thing come to mind:

First, when the Apostle Paul heard of some basic no-no's happening among the Christians in Corinth, he wrote a letter to chastise them. Eventually, however, he tried another approach, and by Chapter 13 of First Corinthians, he gave us one of the most profound treatices ever written on the true meaning of love. That "Love Chapter" as it's often called, provides a way to assess our attitudes and actions, but would we have been given such a beautiful, poetic definition of love if the Corinthians had not been behaving so badly?

Then, in the book of Revelation, the Apostle John wrote down the vision the Risen Christ had given to correct and encourage the seven churches - lauds and warnings that still apply today. When it came to Laodicea,  the last church mentioned, the Lord sharply rebuked them, saying they were neither hot nor cold, but so lukewarm in their fath that He was ready to spit them out of His mouth. Or, as some translations suggest, they made the Lord Christ want to vomit! 

And yet....

After explaining what the Laodiceans lacked, Jesus let them know He only chastises those He loves. And, in verse 20, He offered up an often-quoted invitation that would not have been needed if the Christians in Laodicea had already been strong in faith. Jesus said, "Behold! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in, and we will dine together."

Surely, the Lord would rather not fuss at us! Yet, it's a blessing to know He wants to turn our mistakes, bad attitudes, and poor choices into something good. Praise God! He can!

(c) 2024, Mary Harwell Sayler

Me, Myself, and Eye Care

 

When I mentioned my macular hole (left eye) and macular wrinkle (right eye) to a fellow writer in my Christian Poets & Writers group on Facebook, I learned he has a similar problem! I hope it's not a common concern among poets and writers, but if you have worsening vision, I pray these tips will help:

 

• Place a magnifying glass in every room where you’re apt to need one.
• Add closed captions to programs on TV.
• Buy audio books or print editions with 14-point fonts or larger.
• Avoid glare.
• Get phones with large buttons.
• Put yellow strips on the edge of each step.
• Wear sunglasses with UV filters or lenses that darken in sunlight.
• Zoom in and increase the size of words and pictures on your computer monitor.
• Limit computer time.
• Avoid wind, dust, and dryness.
• Stay hydrated!
• Schedule regular checkups with an Ophthalmologist.

 

If you’ve found other ideas that work for you, my eyes and I will welcome your suggestions in the Comments below. Take care. 

God bless.

 

Mary Harwell Sayler

 

When people in your presence push their politics

 

(Yes, alliteration intended.)

Are you weary of hearing heated debates over politics? If so, try turning disputes into a truce with these Bible tips.

• All Christians have a duty to tell the truth of God’s Word: “There is no authority except from God,” Romans 13.
• All lands are placed under God-given authority (Jeremiah 27:6.) 
• All of the people in the crowd recognized Jesus’ authority as He taught them (Matthew 7:29.)
• All authority to forgive has been given to Jesus (Matthew 9:6.)
• All ill spirits must submit to Jesus’ authority (Luke 4:36.)
• All followers of Jesus have His authority and power to use for good (Luke 9:1.)
• All powerful people and worldly authorities have immeasurably less power and influence than the church Body of Christ. As the Bible explains:

^“God’s power was at work in Christ when God raised him from the dead and sat him at God’s right side in the heavens, far above every ruler and authority and power and angelic power, any power that might be named not only now but in the future. God put everything under Christ’s feet and made him head of everything in the church, which is his body. His body, the church, is the fullness of Christ, who fills everything in every way,” Ephesians 1:20-23, Common English Bible (CEB.)

Church, we have work to do! Let’s start by stopping arguments among ourselves! Let’s unite in prayer to discern the tasks the Lord has given each of us to do as the Body of Christ and His Ambassadors to the world.

 

©2022, Mary Sayler

 (Above scriptures came from searching Bible Gateway.)

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Caregivers, Caretakers

Undoubtedly, our circumstances differ in detail, but my thoughts here and your Comments below might help each of us who cares for an adult with some form of dementia or an inability to process or recall information.

• Note the attention span of the person in your care. One minute? Three?  
• Be prepared to answer the same question or hear the same story many, many times.
• Offer needed instructions one sentence at a time. Too much information at once frustrates and confuses.
• Dreams might replace actual memories. Avoid arguing or saying things like, “You’re wrong” or “That’s not what happened. Change the subject, use distraction, and get out a photo album or scrapbook to boost memories.
• Show respect and empathy, not pity, intolerance, or (God forbid!) disgust.
• Welcome, encourage, and dwell on any show of positive attitudes such as the person’s humor, delight in little things, and appreciation for nature, you, and God.

Equally important:

• Take care of yourself!
• Rest whenever you can, even in snatches.
• Stay well-hydrated.
• Find creative outlets. Give yourself permission to color outside the lines.
• Read up on the condition you’re dealing with and look for support groups.
• Try not to put yourself in a potentially dangerous situation. For example, never, never stand in front of someone who looks like they’re about to pass out or fall!
• Walk behind and be ready to grab onto a shirt or belt, not to hold the person up, but to help steady the individual until balance returns.
• Take a walk when you need a break. If that’s impossible, try taking three deep breaths.
• Talk to your pastor, priest, or other spiritual person you trust.
• Sing hallelujah songs. Praise God.
• Pray, pray, pray!

 

©2022, Mary Sayler

 

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Jesus can use the Internet!

 

If you’ve ever been to church or read the Bible, you’ve surely heard Jesus’ command in Matthew 28:18-19:

 

King James Version

“And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth. Go ye therefore, and teach all nations….”

 

Douay-Rheims 1899 American Edition

“And Jesus coming, spoke to them, saying: All power is given to me in heaven and in earth. Going therefore, teach ye all nations….”

 

For those of us who never felt called to serve as missionaries in various countries, this Great Commission doesn’t seem to apply. But, if you’ve read the whole Bible, you know that God doesn’t ask His people to do something without providing the means.

 

With Christ on the Internet, we can teach all nations from our homes, offices, or mobile devices! Blogs, websites, e-zines, e-books, podcasts, e-mail, text-messages, and social media sites open multiple ways to The Way. Or, to be more precise, The Way provides and uses many ways - even cyberspace - to reach and teach us and others.

 

Remember the particular powers the Lord has been given? As Matthew 28 clearly states, Jesus has ALL POWER in heaven and in the earth. We’re talking Cosmic Connections! Wouldn’t that include satellite dishes, radio waves, and other means I don’t even know to mention?

 

The point is, everything falls under the power of the Lord Jesus Christ!

 

• Prayers sites to connect us with one another, enabling two or more of us to make our prayer requests agreeable to Jesus’ Name….
• Searchable Bibles online to answer questions, provide commentary, and enable us to research what God actually says about a topic, not just what we thought He said….
• Information from trustworthy sites to help us through mental, physical, or spiritual health concerns….

 

That last thought first began this conversation. i.e., In a harrowing weekend involving lots of blood, no hospital anywhere near, and shut-downs of family doctors, I panicked! I did not know what to do. By Saturday evening, I’d looked and looked for information on the Internet to no avail. Then came Sunday.

 

I’d been praying all along – mostly “God help!” but that morning I asked Jesus to please lead me to the information needed. He did. Maybe it was the way my search changed or the way sites I hadn’t noticed before now caught my attention or the way that Christ’s presence sustained me. But, whatever way the Lord used, The Way led me to the way that calmed, that worked, that healed.

 

©2021, Mary Sayler

 

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Where old hotlinks go to die or worse!

If you’ve been fortunate enough to get a .com, .net, or other dot domain in your own name, do not (I repeat, do not) let it go! Ditto on other domain names that define your work. 

Unfortunately, I speak from experience! Earlier this year, I decided not to renew my domain names and keep only my blogs or other free sites. Bad idea! Within a short time, I discovered that anyone looking for my writing, poetry tips, or Bible-based websites would be led to psychic readings or, worse, a page of nudes! This was not why I spent a decade building followers! 

I suppose such shocks are to be expected: i.e. people opposed to Christianity will be ready to take advantage of the opportunities that, sadly, I created. The only way I know how to enter this battle without coming to blows is to go through my blogs and change old hotlinks to current ones. 

Last week, I spent 3.5 days turning posts into drafts, locating the worrisome links, and inserting active ones I actually want people to find. Sounds easy enough, but tedious as I had well over 1,300 posts! 

 I’m still less than half-way through this tiring task, but, Lord willing, I hope to update the remaining links this week. Nevertheless, I’m very, very grateful the Lord made me aware of this problem before I had a lot more posts to tend. 

Praise God! 

©2021, Mary Sayler 

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