June 12, 2025

Where Do You Want Your Words to Go?

 
“Ouchy! Ouchy, I stubbed my toe!” Hopefully, such words do not need an audience. Even if we’re in a room with a compassionate person, who says, “Oh, Poor Baby!” we really don’t need to commemorate those words in writing.

Unfortunately, many writers, including Christians, crave attention for every woe and complaint, often going on and on as though no one will understand without lengthy explanations. That sounds like a harsh assessment! But it’s true, and I pray it gives us all cause to pause and question our purpose in writing.

If we say, “God called me to write!” Excellent reason! That happened to me, too, so our job then is to follow up by writing FOR him and letting HIM write through us. (Oh, I pray He does so now!)

Decades ago, I sensed Christ Jesus showing me His nail-pierced palms and saying, “Heal My hands.” Since I think of churches around the world as being the Lord’s hands, I took that encounter to mean He wanted me to do what I could to help bring the church Body of Christ back together, holding hands, working together, and making a unified difference in the world. At the moment, we seem more polarized than ever! But I keep praying and writing whatever God puts on my mind.

But, back to the topic of considering where or to whom our words go. When my children were growing up, I wrote Sunday School take-home papers for young readers – both Bible stories and little contemporary stories children could relate to as “take-aways” for their lives. This meant using short sentences – the younger the reader, the shorter the words and paragraphs too.

Later, writing for teens required another vocabulary and more grown-up tone, even if the overall message remained the same. For example, children of all ages need to know that God WILL work things out for good for all who love Him (Romans 8:28.) And, yes, for all who are called according to His purpose, which most likely includes children who do even know yet what that means. Regardless, how you approach that or any topic must consider the most relevant level – beginner to advanced. 


So consider using a favorite scripture as a theme, then deciding where you want your words to go. To whom will you speak? Then, as you think about your choice of readers, ask yourself:


What do we most likely have in common – love of God, problems with relationships, enjoyment of a hobby or activity, the same denominational preference?

What type of tone might be most effective – playful, serious, conversational?

Do I want to inspire readers by offering daily devotionals, uplifting poems, encouraging articles, stories illustrating problems overcome by faith in God?

Do I enjoy research? If so, what topics would I like to investigate – scriptural takes on worship, medical issues, artistic endeavors, technical concerns, mental health, insomnia?

Do I want to educate or inform?  For instance, when a “military neck” became a pain in the neck and an aching back affected mobility, I wanted to find out various causes and treatments, so I started researching medical journals (found online via state libraries) and trustworthy websites such as NIH (National Institutes of Health.) Each entry required at least six reputable resources, but eventually, the research lead to two life-health encyclopedias written for Facts on File with a medical professional in the field to proof the entries.

The above examples offer only a few to consider before writing. Then, let each theme, purpose, and genre draw readers with whom you can connect, speaking in an appropriate voice. Of course, if you want to write about the strong reactions caused by most toe-stubs, go for it, but don’t tip-toe around. Investigate. Research. And, always, always be the very readership God had in mind for His written word.

Thank you for commenting below, asking questions, suggesting topics for future posts, and subscribing to this blog. May blessings abound in your writing life in Christ.

Mary Harwell Sayler

 

 

 


May 20, 2025

Let’s Hear It For John 3:17!

 

Church-goer or not, anyone who’s watched football on TV or been to a game has surely heard of John 3:16: “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes on Him will have everlasting life.” That’s a promise –the most vital one the Lord gives, assuring us of His plan for our salvation.

Unfortunately, many people do not believe they’re worthy of such a hope. Or they think Christ came, but not for them. And that’s where John 3:17 comes in. As the verse says: “For Christ did not come into the world to condemn the world, but that, through Him, the world might be saved.”

What constitutes the world? The earth and the physical beings who dwell here. That means people. And, “people” includes every human being, every person, me, and, of course, you.

The guarantee of John 3:17 has nothing to do with how good we are or how depraved! Whether we’re little-goody-two-shoes or people too ashamed to hold up our heads, God’s will is for all to be saved – for all to spend eternity in the presence of His endless love.

So, how do we get there? Jesus Himself answered that question. When people asked, He replied: “This is the work of God, to believe in The One He has sent,” John 6:29.

For Christ didn’t come into the world to sentence us and jail us in hell! The Lord wants our faith in Him to enable us to receive the forgiveness, saving grace, and eternal love He offers to all who believe.

 

© 2025, Mary Sayler

April 16, 2025

Betraying Jesus

 

At the crucifixion, all the sins of the world landed on Jesus, the ultimate sacrifice freely given by the unblemished Lamb of God – God’s Son, Who took all our blemishes to His grave, left them there, and, on Easter, arose without them.

If, however, we think all the blame of this landed on Judas, the definitive betrayer, we would be wrong. For, as Jesus carried our sins, Judas carried our blame.

Hopefully, this poem, published decades ago in A Time of Singing will help to clarify.

 

Is It I, Lord?

I, who love you more
than others, more than self,
deceive you? Never!
An enemy perhaps – or a friend,
(trying to be kind, you understand.)
But not you, Lord.
Oh, no! Oh, no, not you.

Then who or what or how
will someone else
betray you now?

Through hurting words –
cruel cutting swords
of eyes or lies, deceiving...?
In their own righteousness,
believing...?

Oh, my God!  My
God, it is I!
It is I
who crucify.

 

©1984, Mary Sayler

 


March 3, 2025

God messaged me through music


Since I grew up in church, hymn lyrics provided the primary poetry in my life. Well, that and Robert Lewis Stevenson’s A Child’s Garden of Verse. Decades later, I can still recite some of the latter. And I still like to swing and eat animal crackers but without the cocoa. However, the words to hymns escape me until the music begins and kinetic memory beckons me to sing along.

During the day, I usually turn on instrumental versions of classical hymns to fill my home with memories and uplift my spirit. Often, those same old favorites run through my mind, and I like that good company.

This week, though, an internal recording got stuck on a tune I’d heard but couldn’t recall the words. What made this disconcerting was hearing the phrase, “And shall be till I die” play on automatic repeat!

I tried to change the music in my head, but after a short intermission, there was that phrase again, “And shall be till I die” – playing over and over and…. So, I did what most people now do. I Googled the phrase. Up popped “There Is a Fountain” with sheet music showing five verses, the second-to-last of which ended, “And shall be till I die.”

By this time, I was sure God was trying to tell me something, so I couldn’t help but wonder if He were telling me I’m going to die. Yes, we all are, but I was hoping to wait a while. Nevertheless, with a little trepidation, I read the lyrics of that fourth line, and here’s what I found:

Redeeming love has been my theme; And shall be till I die.”

Yes! Thank You, God! I can live with that theme! And, Lord willing, that theme – that purpose – shall continue in me until I die.

Amen!

 

©2025, Mary Harwell Sayler

 

 

February 22, 2025

God, me, and overhanging trees


Living on a fixed income means keeping down expenses and praying for God to provide, especially when something untimely – like a hurricane – happens. In Florida, such a storm caused an unexpected surge in my homeowner’s insurance, even though I hadn’t needed to make a claim.

After many emails, a few phone calls, and a couple of changes in coverage and companies, I lowered my insurance bill considerably. Two months later, however, the new company advised me that the branches hanging over my roof had to be cut back in thirty days or the policy would be cancelled.

Actually, I’d been concerned about those ancient branches but figured I couldn’t afford to have them removed. With no choice now, I started looking for a professional tree service but couldn’t decide who to call. I needed a recommendation. And I prayed for the Lord to provide someone I could trust.

Since I had a lunch engagement, I went. Coming out of the restaurant I saw a half-dozen county workers in yellow slickers, so I walked up to them and asked, “Do you know someone reasonable and reliable I can call to cut back several tree branches?” They pointed to the guy in civies standing right behind them.

As God-incidence would have it, the man owned a tree service!

We agreed on a time the next day for an estimate, but rain forecasts caused us to reschedule for the following morning. And then he didn’t come. Or call. I even left a couple of phone messages but didn’t hear back.

I was so very sure God had arranged for this help that I decided to wait until Monday to call someone else. But who? After Sunday worship, I asked my church family if they could recommend a reputable and affordable tree service. A friend pointed to a card on the bulletin board and said, “They’re the ones who did work for the church.”

Monday morning, I called, and the owner of the company said he could come right then. He did. And his estimate was less than I expected, even though he agreed to do more. He even accepted credit cards! And he promised to come the next day.

We chatted a bit, and he said, “You might be wondering why a professional service would be available this quickly.” Well, yeah. Then he told me how, for a couple of weeks, a glitch in his phone had hindered calls. Sometimes the phone worked; sometimes it didn’t, so he finally went to buy a new one, but keeping his old number. He was coming out of the phone store when I called – the first call on his new phone.

Perfect timing! But as you know….

Things don’t get perfectly timed unless God orchestrates the circumstances.

And I would not have made that call when I did if I hadn’t waited until Monday to find another tree service.

And I wouldn’t have waited if I hadn’t believed God provided that first possibility, which He obviously did.

The Voice Bible translates Romans 8:28 like this, "We are confident that God is able to orchestrate everything to work toward something good and beautiful when we love Him and accept His invitation to live according to His plan." 

Even tree branches aren't out of His jurisdiction to orchestrate - anything, anywhere.

Amen.

 

©2025, Mary Sayler

 

November 9, 2024

Praying Afer Every Election!


1 Timothy 2:1-4 – “Make prayers, requests, intercession, and thanksgiving for everyone – for your leaders and all in authority – so we may lead a quiet and peaceable life of honesty and dignity. For this is good in the sight of God our Savior, Who wants everyone to be saved and come to know the truth.”


Lord, even if we despise someone in a position of authority, You don’t! Your will is for everyone to know the truth about You and be saved. And, who needs saving more than detestable people?

Give us Your prayers to pray, Lord, for our leaders at church, work, school, home, and country. Help us to intercede for those who don’t know You and desperately need You. To be honest, we don’t want to give thanks for unlikeable leaders! Yet we want to thank You for everything, and we choose to obey.

Thank You, Most High God, for the people You have placed in authority over us. Help them to lead with dignity, honor, honesty, and a mind set on You.



Mary Harwell Sayler from Kneeling on the Promises of God

 

April 19, 2024

ABC Characteristics of Christians

 

This alphabetical list describes traits commonly held among Christians from all sorts of backgrounds and church affiliations. However, numerous other possibilities exist too. For instance, we might prefer “Disciplined” under “D” or “Peacemaking” instead of “Prayerful” or “Victorious” in lieu of “Versatile.”

Regardless of the variations we use as substitutes for the words selected here, the list can serve as a reminder of our shared goal of becoming more and more Christ-like.

Accountable

Biblical

Caring

Discerning

Encouraging

Forgiven

Grace-filled

Hopeful

Inspired

Joyful

Kind

Loving

Merciful

Necessary

Obedient

Prayerful

Quickened

Reborn

Spirit-Filled

Thankful

Understanding

Versatile

Worshipful

X-ed out of sin

Young-at-heart

Zealous

 

©2024, MaryHarwell Sayler

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April 13, 2024

God wants to bring good from bad


Remember how Romans 8:28  assures us that "All things work together for good for those who love God and are called according to His purpose?" Two biblical examples of this very thing come to mind:

First, when the Apostle Paul heard of some basic no-no's happening among the Christians in Corinth, he wrote a letter to chastise them. Eventually, however, he tried another approach, and by Chapter 13 of First Corinthians, he gave us one of the most profound treatices ever written on the true meaning of love. That "Love Chapter" as it's often called, provides a way to assess our attitudes and actions, but would we have been given such a beautiful, poetic definition of love if the Corinthians had not been behaving so badly?

Then, in the book of Revelation, the Apostle John wrote down the vision the Risen Christ had given to correct and encourage the seven churches - lauds and warnings that still apply today. When it came to Laodicea,  the last church mentioned, the Lord sharply rebuked them, saying they were neither hot nor cold, but so lukewarm in their fath that He was ready to spit them out of His mouth. Or, as some translations suggest, they made the Lord Christ want to vomit! 

And yet....

After explaining what the Laodiceans lacked, Jesus let them know He only chastises those He loves. And, in verse 20, He offered up an often-quoted invitation that would not have been needed if the Christians in Laodicea had already been strong in faith. Jesus said, "Behold! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in, and we will dine together."

Surely, the Lord would rather not fuss at us! Yet, it's a blessing to know He wants to turn our mistakes, bad attitudes, and poor choices into something good. Praise God! He can!


(c) 2024, Mary Harwell Sayler

April 3, 2022

Me, Myself, and Eye Care

 

When I mentioned my macular hole (left eye) and macular wrinkle (right eye) to a fellow writer in my Christian Poets & Writers group on Facebook, I learned he has a similar problem! I hope it's not a common concern among poets and writers, but if you have worsening vision, I pray these tips will help:

 

  • Place a magnifying glass in every room where you’re apt to need one.
  • Add closed captions to programs on TV.
  • Buy audio books or print editions with 14-point fonts or larger.
  • Avoid glare.
  • Get phones with large buttons.
  • Put yellow strips on the edge of each step.
  • Wear sunglasses with UV filters or lenses that darken in sunlight.
  • Zoom in and increase the size of words and pictures on your computer monitor.
  • Limit computer time.
  • Avoid wind, dust, and dryness.
  • Stay hydrated!
  • Schedule regular checkups with an Ophthalmologist.

 

If you’ve found other ideas that work for you, my eyes and I will welcome your suggestions in the Comments below. Take care. 

God bless.

 

Mary Harwell Sayler

 

January 13, 2022

When people in your presence push their politics

 

(Yes, alliteration intended.)

Are you weary of hearing heated debates over politics? If so, try turning disputes into a truce with these Bible tips.

  • All Christians have a duty to tell the truth of God’s Word: “There is no authority except from God,” Romans 13.
  • All lands are placed under God-given authority (Jeremiah 27:6.) 
  • All of the people in the crowd recognized Jesus’ authority as He taught them (Matthew 7:29.)
  • All authority to forgive has been given to Jesus (Matthew 9:6.)
  • All ill spirits must submit to Jesus’ authority (Luke 4:36.)
  • All followers of Jesus have His authority and power to use for good (Luke 9:1.)
  • All powerful people and worldly authorities have immeasurably less power and influence than the church Body of Christ. As the Bible explains:

God’s power was at work in Christ when God raised him from the dead and sat him at God’s right side in the heavens, far above every ruler and authority and power and angelic power, any power that might be named not only now but in the future. God put everything under Christ’s feet and made him head of everything in the church, which is his body. His body, the church, is the fullness of Christ, who fills everything in every way,” Ephesians 1:20-23, Common English Bible (CEB.)

Church, we have work to do! Let’s start by stopping arguments among ourselves! Let’s unite in prayer to discern the tasks the Lord has given each of us to do as the Body of Christ and His Ambassadors to the world.

 

©2022, Mary Sayler

 (Above scriptures came from searching Bible Gateway.)

 

 

 

 


January 8, 2022

Caregivers, Caretakers

Undoubtedly, our circumstances differ in detail, but my thoughts here and your Comments below might help each of us who cares for an adult with some form of dementia or an inability to process or recall information.

  • Note the attention span of the person in your care. One minute? Three?  
  • Be prepared to answer the same question or hear the same story many, many times.
  • Offer needed instructions one sentence at a time. Too much information at once frustrates and confuses.
  • Dreams might replace actual memories. Avoid arguing or saying things like, “You’re wrong” or “That’s not what happened. Change the subject, use distraction, and get out a photo album or scrapbook to boost memories.
  • Show respect and empathy, not pity, intolerance, or (God forbid!) disgust.
  • Welcome, encourage, and dwell on any show of positive attitudes such as the person’s humor, delight in little things, and appreciation for nature, you, and God.

Equally important:

  • Take care of yourself!
  • Rest whenever you can, even in snatches.
  • Stay well-hydrated.
  • Find creative outlets. Give yourself permission to color outside the lines.
  • Read up on the condition you’re dealing with and look for support groups.
  • Try not to put yourself in a potentially dangerous situation. For example, never, never stand in front of someone who looks like they’re about to pass out or fall!
  • Walk behind and be ready to grab onto a shirt or belt, not to hold the person up, but to help steady the individual until balance returns.
  • Take a walk when you need a break. If that’s impossible, try taking three deep breaths.
  • Talk to your pastor, priest, or other spiritual person you trust.
  • Sing hallelujah songs. Praise God.
  • Pray, pray, pray!

 

©2022, Mary Sayler

 

 

 


December 13, 2021

Jesus can use the Internet!

 

If you’ve ever been to church or read the Bible, you’ve surely heard Jesus’ command in Matthew 28:18-19:

 

King James Version

“And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth. Go ye therefore, and teach all nations….”

 

Douay-Rheims 1899 American Edition

“And Jesus coming, spoke to them, saying: All power is given to me in heaven and in earth. Going therefore, teach ye all nations….”

 

For those of us who never felt called to serve as missionaries in various countries, this Great Commission doesn’t seem to apply. But, if you’ve read the whole Bible, you know that God doesn’t ask His people to do something without providing the means.

 

With Christ on the Internet, we can teach all nations from our homes, offices, or mobile devices! Blogs, websites, e-zines, e-books, podcasts, e-mail, text-messages, and social media sites open multiple ways to The Way. Or, to be more precise, The Way provides and uses many ways - even cyberspace - to reach and teach us and others.

 

Remember the particular powers the Lord has been given? As Matthew 28 clearly states, Jesus has ALL POWER in heaven and in the earth. We’re talking Cosmic Connections! Wouldn’t that include satellite dishes, radio waves, and other means I don’t even know to mention?

 

The point is, everything falls under the power of the Lord Jesus Christ!

 

  • Prayers sites to connect us with one another, enabling two or more of us to make our prayer requests agreeable to Jesus’ Name….
  • Searchable Bibles online to answer questions, provide commentary, and enable us to research what God actually says about a topic, not just what we thought He said….
  • Information from trustworthy sites to help us through mental, physical, or spiritual health concerns….

 

That last thought first began this conversation. i.e., In a harrowing weekend involving lots of blood, no hospital anywhere near, and shut-downs of family doctors, I panicked! I did not know what to do. By Saturday evening, I’d looked and looked for information on the Internet to no avail. Then came Sunday.

 

I’d been praying all along – mostly “God help!” but that morning I asked Jesus to please lead me to the information needed. He did. Maybe it was the way my search changed or the way sites I hadn’t noticed before now caught my attention or the way that Christ’s presence sustained me. But, whatever way the Lord used, The Way led me to the way that calmed, that worked, that healed.

 

©2021, Mary Sayler

 

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Where Do You Want Your Words to Go?

  “Ouchy! Ouchy, I stubbed my toe!” Hopefully, such words do not need an audience. Even if we’re in a room with a compassionate person, who ...